A Man's Final Farewell To Past Hurts

Today I say farewell to self-criticism of my being. I choose today to see myself as a beam of light designed to shine wholeness and happiness to others who I meet.

Today I say farewell to self-sabotaging behaviors. No longer will I remind myself of my past mistakes and failures. No longer will I beat myself up for making choices that did not benefit me. Instead, today I choose to honor learn from my failures and embrace my successes as I am a man designed with dignity.

Today I say farewell to poor self-esteem. No longer will I compare myself to other people as I realize that there is no one in this world that can be like me. I have not found a person who is able to talk, walk, love, and touch with such passion and inspiration like me. I am often imitated but am never duplicated as there is only one me. Thus today I accept that I am beautiful and am proud of who I am.

Today I say farewell to being a man scorned, as I cannot rewrite the past. No longer will I sit in a room filled with despair, depression, hopelessness, and unhappiness. I will no longer allow my thoughts of past hurts to impact my health, wellness, career, and wealth. I trade these tight fitting shoes from the past for shoes that I am able to strut myself in without fear of corns or bunions. I will walk with my head held up high, as I am a real man with creative thoughts, visions, and great pride.

Today I say hello to being a man who loves life. I am filled with energy no matter what obstacles I may face. I was designed to have success in every area of my life and I happily take hold of the reins.

Today I say hello to being a man who does not have to settle for less. I no longer have to compromise my happiness just to be like everyone else. Instead I strive to fly with the eagles and embark on my life’s journey with grace and tenacity. I am a strong man. I am a real man.

Today I choose to love myself for who I am and not what other people want me to be. Why you might ask? I have discovered the strength that lies within me. Through times of hurt, I will strive for healing. When faced with fears, I will find faith and peace. When I am feeling alone I will rest assured there is someone with me. I have finally discovered that I have found a friend and that friend lives deep inside me.

So this is my final farewell to ALL my past hurts as I choose to no longer allow you to reside within me.

You Can Be Everything You Ever Dreamed You Could Be

Fulfill your dreams today.
No more waiting
no more wishing
start right now.

Within this very second
we can find what was and is missing
from our lives.

Whatever causes us to hesitate
before meeting goals
or taking time to smell a flower
the answers are still within us.

We choose to embrace
beautiful, luscious,glorious things in life
or not.
Within this very second
we can...
choose
and ohhh my goodness
isn't that outstanding?
I think so
and I think so..
so, so much, that I will write it down
place it under my pillow
and dream of life's potential.

We can feel our own breath
acknowledge it more consciously
than the single breath before
and be renewed in that
or...
not.

We miss the serendipity of life
sometimes.
Feel that deep inside of your soul
so you will not miss it
again.

We plan
and fret
and spin our wheels.

Stop.

Sometimes we miss
that our dreams are being fulfilled
right in front of us
and we walk past them.
I do!
YOU do... right?
Of course!

Decide anew.

We work hard to meet our goals
but fall short of noticing
that 'spectacular'
is within reach
and oft times all around us.

Why not accept spectacular things happening NOW?
Why not?

Why not see that the light is indeed excellent?
It truly is all around us.

Within every morning there is a sunrise
and the evening brings the colors
most spectacular
of a well spent day
bringing us sunsets
despite our awareness of them
they still come!...
Wow!

The moon is right there in its place
blessed by a zillion stars
as we stay inside our houses.

or

Here is an idea...

We can step into the outside world
and find the "magic".

Think about that for just one second..

tic toc.. tic toc

take pause..

Because this is YOUR LIFE
and YOU are living it i
n the very second
that you read this.

STUN yourself.

Stars shine and twinkle
within their very same galaxy
stars turn in opposite directions!
Wow!
So they do that why?
I don't know at all!
BUT it feels like it is...
to secure their individuality.

HOW do I find ME
HOW do you find YOU??
...within that idea?

Looking onto a landscape
off in the distance
mountains take on a purple hue.
Trees and plants awaken with the change of season.
Rivers move toward the ocean
wildlife is as healthy as we care to make it.
What an opportunity...
take it
and make it
shine!

Expect the brush of life
to meets your dreams on a canvas of miracles.

Why not?

Why decide that dreams being met
are for other people?

Mentors come into our lives
to show us the way.
We stretch our minds and hearts
...or not.

STEP OUT!

BE!

TODAY
Y-O-U can be as spectacular
as YOU want it to be...
simply by noticing
and listening to your heart.

Loneliness

Loneliness is what?

To be alone or to be with our inner self.

For most of us being alone is taken up as when no one is with us, we are sitting alone, in a crowd. We name it as loneliness but we if are alone then why we feel that in spite of being alone we are with someone, we say we are alone but in that loneliness we are not alone we are with our inner self. Just think of it. When we are alone we never sit idle, some thing fishy is always going on in our mind. Either we use to think or we use to talk. But if we say that we are alone then with whom we are talking. At that very moment we are not alone, though for others we are but for our soul we are at that moment with our inner soul.

This loneliness is life for some of us. At times we prefer to sit alone because at that moment we talk to ourselves, we try to find out why we feel so. We cry, we laugh then how can it be said as being alone. How can one laugh or cry or talk being alone.

To be alone is sometimes much better then to be with someone, because when we are alone we take it as what we want, what are our desire’s and then we use to think how to get on to that, though we feel bad also but in that case we find the reason to be happy for that very situation from our inner self. And at times we feel the presence of the person with whom we want to talk or to share something and then we just speak out what is there in our heart, in our mind.

Being alone is not as we normally take it up as, its nothing else then something a soothing time. Though at times we feel like broken, we feel like why we are here if we have to be like this only. Either we use to criticize others or we criticize ourselves.

As because we think only those aspects which we want to see, we don’t go for those aspects that should be considered or we may say at that very moment either we are in anger or we are in sad mood so we think only those point which make us unhappy and we feel low and we think we are left alone and we forget the good things because at that point of time our mind lets us to do according to one side only, and at times we listen to our mind only and we listen to our heart then we reach to the conclusion. Because at many places its better to listen to our heart then to our mind.

When one feel lonely just sit look for why you are feeling so, listen to what your heart say then the condition to which you say as loneliness will become your friend for times.

Love, Pride and Craziness

How many times in your life have you not said what you had to say and not done what you had to, only because you were afraid?

And why were you afraid? Were you in a life-threatening risk? Would you have to make too much effort?

No. You were afraid because you didn't want to be ridiculous, you didn't want to show your weakness, you didn't want to face the truth and confess it to someone.

When you have a fear, it is because you know that there is some danger or many dangers threatening you. It's not a feeling that appears in your behaviour without any reason.

When you are afraid to say the truth, afraid that you might be considered an idiot or dependent on someone else, you are in fact afraid to destroy the image of your ego because it is an idol for you.

Therefore, you prepare a tremendous conspiracy only in order to hide how desperately you need the person you love, or only in order to appear a certain way in your social environment.

You let the person you love suffer very much by being away from you and you yourself suffer far more, only because your ego cannot accept the simplicity of sincerity. You cannot confess your weakness. Therefore, you prefer to lose and suffer without hope than be humble and accept that you need someone.

You prefer to be cold and cruel with the person you would like to hug, only because you think that this must be your attitude, according to your position.

You are afraid to be human, have needs, admit that when you are in love with someone you are weak too, like everybody else in this world, even though many people try to hide it like you.

You are afraid to be humble, simple, insignificant and especially afraid to be disliked. You have to always be on top! You cannot lower yourself. Your pride doesn't allow you to be simple and like the crowd.

Therefore, you prefer to be crazy and become crazier in the future due to your despair. You prefer to lose and to abandon, to humiliate and to condemn.

However, I feel I have the obligation to inform you that schizophrenia and psychosis are waiting for you, when you explode like a bomb because you didn't have the courage to be human, to ask for what you needed so much or even to beg.

Love, pride, fear and craziness are the component parts of a real tragedy.

If you are proud of yourself and you tend to behave as I described before, please think seriously about my words.